Kutheni uphupha yolwandle?

Ukuba ephupheni sibona amanzi, nokuba engxangxasi, umlambo, emfuleni okanye ichibi, oko kusoloko indlela enye okanye enye uhlobene ienjini yethu. Kweli manzi kucocekile okanye kumdaka, ukuhamba lesiphithiphithi okanye indawo ezolileyo kwaye kuxhomekeke ukutyhilwa ephupheni. Kuthiwa ukuba, amanzi ecacileyo acocekileyo usoloko ukuqikelela impiliso okanye iingxelo ukuba indlela etyenenezileyo ekunene. Kulungile, jikelele, kwaye uthetha malunga iphupha apho sibona elwandle? Njengomthetho jikelele, ngokutsho amathemba kunye neminqweno yethu, kuyo nayiphi na imeko, limela isigaba nethuku kunye neemvakalelo, ngokufuthi ezingaphaya kolawulo ngesizathu. Ukuze siqonde oko ulwandle iphupha kwimeko nganye, sizama ukuba ndibhenele iincwadi iphupha ezahlukeneyo.

Inkoliso yabo ingxelo ukuba beach ofudumeleyo ngamaphupha zinto zingumqondiso zonke iintlobo beziyolo yehlabathi kunye novuyo, kunye kokuna kwesiphango elumkisa malunga imfuneko ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo, ngoko ke akukho mome intloko yakhe. Sandy Beach embhoxo yokuba bonke kungekudala idlula - uphilisa ixesha na amava, kanye njengokuba amanzi olwandle ajike amatye abe isanti. ulwandle Vula - uphawu iimvakalelo ezinamandla kunye neemvakalelo. Ukuba singabathembele kuKristu kobu isithuba uqiniseka ephupheni, amaphupha akho libe yinyaniso. Ukuba, ke, ujonge umphezulu elwandle, uziva uxhalabile okanye ukoyika - musa siwele iimvakalelo kunye nethuku, fumana amandla zokuyifihla kubo.

Ukuba ephupheni elwandle uzolile yaye kubonakala abaphili, oko luphawu ukudinwa, ingakumbi engqondweni. Mhlawumbi simele sicinge ekuphumleni ke ukuba aye. Yiya elwandle okanye elunxwemeni ephupheni - kwendlela, ejonge ulwandle - balinde iindaba, iinzulu zolwandle ukubona - ixhala ifihliwe. Kutheni liphupha kuqubha elwandle? Downers bathi ukuzalisekisa umnqweno.

Makhe zama ukufumanisa oko ulwandle iphupha kwi kwincwadi ephupheni Freud kaThixo. Umsunguli psychoanalysis babekholelwa ukuba eli phupha nto kodwa njengophawu isichumiso, ukukhulelwa nokuzalwa. ulwandle isaqhwithi, ukuba ukholelwa le ncwadi phupha, ibonisa ukuba ulwalamano lwakho neqabane lakho kuyimfuneko ekuphononongeni ulungise, yaye oko kuba kuhle ukucinga ngokwaphula. Ukuba uhamba ngaselunxwemeni, ngoko enyanisweni nawe ubunzima ngenxa yokuba akazange ahlangabezane nangoku bethuna. Kwaye ukuba kurhaxwa, okunene unabantwana, ukuba akufuni, yaye singaqondanga ukunciphisa abafowunelwa zabo zesini.

incwadi iphupha athandana inika umdla gqitha ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo. Ulwandle sizinzile, kungakhathaliseki apho ukhona kuwo singayilindele - evela inqanawa okanye ukusuka elunxwemeni, ithi le meko iya kutshintsha kungekudala, ngenxa uya kufumana into ofuna njalo. Ukuba ubona umntu isecaleni, ngoko eneneni uyakwazi ukunceda lo mntu ukusombulula ingxaki leyo akanako ukumelana. Ukuba ukuqubha, ngoko yonke into kakuhle ebomini bakho, kwaye uziva okulungileyo. Uzama ukuba bangene ehlokomayo, ulwandle lesiphithiphithi - uya kuba ubusuku ulibaleke luthando. Ukuba ukuqubha phantsi kwamanzi, ngoko akuyomfuneko ukuba wazi into ozama ukufunda kunjalo, oku kuya kubangela inkxalabo kuphela.

Dream Miller kakhulu eyahlukileyo ukuchaza into ulwandle iphupha. Ngoko ke, ukuba uve ephupheni isandi mdla surf, oko kuthetha ukuba ubomi ulinde wena ekruqulayo yaye ingabangeli, uya kuhluthwa nje uthando kuphela, kodwa kananjalo inxaxheba lobuhlobo. Ngokubanzi, loo maphupha, ngokutsho Dream Miller, bonisa elinde ilize, yaye ukuba mphuphi ngokugqithiseleyo nozintyintya ebumnandini zenyama, ndizilibala iimfuno komphefumlo. Kodwa ukuba intombazana uyaphupha ukuba intingela phezu kwamanzi, kunye nesithandwa sakhe, amaphupha akhe girlish ngolonwabo kuzaliseka.

Umbuzo - yeka ulwandle iphupha, linika iimpendulo eneenkcukacha incwadi iphupha Ngezidwangube. Ulwandle luphawu yobukhulu kunye Infinity, ezo amaphupha baxele ukuba ubomi mphuphi ukuba kuza ixesha apho yonke into akuxhomekekanga ngemizamo yabo, kodwa iimeko zangaphandle. Ukongeza, ukuba ulwandle isonka, esi ienjini uza aqanduselwe kolawulo enokuthi yenze umonakalo. Amaza Zolani ithi ukuba lixesha lokuba ukukhula ngokomoya. Ezininzi zaselwandle-amagwebu iphupha - ithemba engento. Inyanga phezu kolwandle - umqondiso ntle, Noko ke, indlela kwenyanga - sonwabe kunye ngoxolo.

Kodwa ke indlela elula ukucacisa intsingiselo esoteric we ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo iphupha, njengako zobomi bethu ufana ulwandle. Ngoko ke, apho wakubonayo wena ephupheni ngokunxulumene elwandle (elunxwemeni, phezu komhlaba, emazantsi), apho ukhona manje ebomini.