Isigama ukuhlobana: Ulwalamano uyise uyise umfazi umyeni wakhe?

Wedding - usuku ukwenza iyunithi entsha ye kuluntu - usapho, ngokunjalo nangokumanywa kulo kwisizukulwana ezimbini. Ngaba uyafuna ukuba eninzi izalamane? iphupha lakho libe yinyaniso, kuba emva kokuba umtshato inani kabini close. Yintoni na ukuba uthi onke amalungu amatsha entsapho, ekufuneka uyise umfazi nendoda nguyise?

Abazali amaqabane ngokunxulumene abantwana

Ngamnye wethu uyazi ukuba lo mfazana kufuneka ubize abazali-in-mthetho yakhe nendoda yakhe. Ngako oko, umfazi nomama - uninazala noyise - e-mthetho. Indoda ubiza umfazi wakhe, unina-kumama notata - uvavanyo. Yaye yintoni ebangela ukuba uyise kayise umfazi indoda yakhe, kukho ibinzana ndingatshatanga anikwe iqondo phakathi kweentsapho? Namhlanje, inkcazelo entsonkothileyo izalamane le "umtshato," Kunqabile ezisetyenziswa kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Uvume, akunjalo ngokufuthi usiva igama elithi "mzalwana-in-mthetho" okanye "kwi-mthetho". Ngako oko, abantu basoloko bexakaniseka, yaye abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba uyise kayise umfazi wakhe, indoda ukuba uvavanyo. Kambe ke nantsi eyona nkcazelo engalunganga. Biza igama elinikiweyo kayise umfazi wakhe kunokuba kuphela indoda yakhe, yena, naye, ngokunxulumene kuyise womkakhe nonina-in-mthetho.

Ngokwenkcazelo echanekileyo phakathi kweentsapho

Enyanisweni, uyise kayise umfazi wakhe, indoda kufuneka wabantu. Kukho kwakhona uguqulelo nemazi yale nkcazelo - ". Matchmakers" Eli gama lisetyenziswa ukuchaza kunye nomama-in-komthetho ngokunxulumene nenye. Apho igama elithi "izithandani"? Impendulo ngqo lo mbuzo, iingcali iqhutywe kweenguqulelo ezahlukeneyo. Noko ke, ukuba njengoko akucaci ukuba lizwi nobumnandi. imizekeliso Popular neendinyana nemvano "mzalwana-wabantu." Kodwa ngokwenene, ngemihla yamandulo babekholelwa ukuba abantwana ukwenda - kuthetha ukuba enxulumene abazali babo.

Ulwalamano to nomfazi kayise uyise yomyeni xa umntu lowo?

Zegama "wabantu" yaye "matchmakers" jikelele. Zinokusetyenziswa ukubhekisela abazali benkosikazi yakhe kunye nomyeni wakhe (ngokunxulumene unina noyise lwezinye umlingane, ngokulandelelanayo). Kuyinto yimpazamo ukukholelwa ukuba uyise ngumfazi kayise umyeni wakhe na ke owayemele. "Kum" yaye "owayemele" - esi sibheno godparents umntwana ngokunxulumene eziphilayo. Khumbula kanye kanye yonke inkcazelo lokwenyaniso ngabazali amaqabane ngokunxulumene nenye. Kuyinto "wabantu" yaye "matchmakers." Kukho olunye uhlobo lwale kwinkcazelo uyise okanye umyeni yintombi kanina ka-(okanye , unyana umfazi lowo). Ethetha impukane okanye impukane kwi umntu wesithathu, kufanelekile ukuba uthi, "Umama-in-yam intombi ..." okanye "uvavanyo unyana wam ...". Kwezinye iimeko, olu khetho thelekisa kwizalamane kwincoko elula kakhulu, umzekelo, ukuba abantwana abaninzi kunye bonke bephela utshatile. Kulo mzekelo, hayi bawela ingcaciso apho uvavanyo kuthethwa ingashwankathelwa besithi "le-e-mthetho / uyise (igama yomntwana)." Uyakwazi ukuthetha umama-in-mthetho ngokungavumi ukusebenzisa igama elithi "matchmakers."

Impukane and impukane - intsapho entsha yentsapho entsha

Relations phakathi kwezalamane batshatayo ncam. Kodwa ke wawungenakuzisola uzama ukuba awamise kwaye wenze abahlobo abaninzi. Yintoni umahluko, ekufuneka uyise umfazi nendoda kayise nendlela kumbiza ubuhlobo? Ngapha koko, oku kudla malunga amabini amadoda abaneminyaka efanayo, isizukulwana efanayo. Yaye ukuba iwonga ezahlukeneyo zentlalo kunye Outlook, ukufumana izinto ezifanayo yaye izihloko incoko ayikho nzima. Uyise-nonina noyise inokuba mnandi kunye, eshiya ngokwaneleyo ukuba alungiselele ukuba ukuloba okanye ukuzingela, nepikiniki okanye ukufumana imisebenzi. Ngokukhawuleza emva Izihlobo sibini yokuhlangana kufuneka benze konke okusemandleni ukunceda abazali babo ukwakha ubuhlobo. Ke ukuba umfowunelwa lusekiwe, uya kuba usapho ngokwenene ezinkulu lula. Ngokufuthi izalamane na umntu ohlobene ngokwegazi, abe omnye ngakumbi kwe abazalwana noodade abaye bakhulela kunye. Kwaye ngenene, kuyafuneka ukuba babuyele ubulumko yamandulo kwaye ukhumbule ukuba kumtshato abantwana - isizathu sokuba ezinxulumene ngayo abazali babo.