Indawo yesafire kugubungela iminyaka engama-45 yomtshato

kweminyaka engama-45 sitshatile ... kangangexesha, kodwa ke Wedding Red nangoku hafu igqityiwe ndlela, kodwa bangaphi anamava. Ngapha koko, izinto eziphosakeleyo babesendleleni, kwaye nenqala enkulu, yaye amathuba obonwabisayo isiganeko yovuyo. musa ukukhumbula yonke into kwaye mna, yaye ndifuna ukuba gxwa kulutsha ulihambe zihlandlo ebangel 'umdla elidlulileyo, uzalise intliziyo uthando ngakumbi. Ukuze wenze oku, kwaye udinga into nje inqaku lomtshato engama iminyaka engama-45.

Noko ke, njengokuba umthetho, wentlokoma eneminyaka yabo kunzima ukuba bathwale umthwalo imiba zombutho, ngoko ke kungcono ukuba ukushiyela isiganeko omkhulu abantwana kunye nabazukulwana. Akukho ngcono kunabo abazi imikhwa kunye Ukuthanda amaqhawe imini, kwaye imikhosi kuzo, neshumi ezinjalo iziganeko baya kwanela. Yiyiphi eyona ndlela ilungileyo ukuba alungiselele ukuba iholide abazali abaye bafikelela oluthile sikhwela esinjengosuku lomtshato iminyaka engama-45.

Akukho nto kweminyaka engama-45 sitshatile ekuthiwa Sapphire umtshato, kuba ilitye ufuzisela uthando kunye nokhuselo ebubini. Kunye namakhosikazi abaye bafikelela amane anesihlanu eminyaka engama, baye bafunda baze baqhubeke ukukhusela iqabane lakhe aze agcinwe entliziyweni uthando abazinikeleyo ukuba iqabane lakho. mizwa kudingeka ukuba badumise ku esibhakabhakeni, bona, ngokuzenzekelayo, naye oluhlaza. Ngoko ke, uququzelela iholide wokuwonga elaa isikhumbuzo isiseko ungenza umbala eziblowu, leyo nakolu egumbini, imihombiso etafileni izincedisi ngokuvathisa.

Kungcono ukuba balungelelanise siganeko ukwenzela ukuba Amaqhawe sihlandlo, ingazi malunga iholide imbeko yabo, ngenxa yokuba loo wothuka uya kuzisa ezininzi iimvakalelo ezakhayo, eya kuthi ke kuxoxwa ixesha elide kwi isidlo sasemini nentsapho.

Ekubeni uyicacisile mxholo, kubalulekile ukucinga ngento ukubandakanya inani iindwendwe ezimenyiweyo. Le yenye yezi ngongoma zibalulekileyo apho kukho stop. Kwakungayi kuba wathi akuyi kuba umtshato amane anesihlanu kufuneka iindwendwe ngaphantsi kwe 45, nenzondelelo kakhulu akukho mfuneko. kweminyaka engama-45 sitshatile - nto yiholide usapho, ngoko iindwendwe kufuneka ibe kufutshane kakhulu kwaye wentlokoma dear. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana kunye nabazukulwana, abazali, izalamane kunye nabantakwabo, abahlobo abo babehamba ecaleni kufutshane ubomi bomtshato. I eyiyo bekuya kuba ukuthumela ngamangqina izimemo emsithweni. Ukuba beza isikhumbuzo, emoyeni festive iza kukhumbuza umbhiyozo yomtshato ngemini. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba iindwendwe ezininzi zange isebenze, okoko nje sibini Ndavuya ukubabona phakathi iindwendwe.

Xa elungiselela isihikahika setheko, ungenza i uhambo nge imbali ukuba uya kukuzisela uncumo emilebeni yakhe, iinyembezi solonwabo isiliya nokungcangcazela entliziyweni. Olu hambo kungenziwa ngoncedo ubugcisa yemaltimidiya eya kukhokelela elikhulu isikrini ifilim malunga sibini yonwabileyo esitshatileyo ehlabathini. Ngokuqinisekileyo ubomi kunye wayiqokelela eninzi iifoto, iividiyo, amabali ekhumbulekayo. Le ifilimu ivulwe kunye intetho liyeke ukuba lesikhumbuzo. Ukuba awukwazi ulimise umatshini, ungasoloko kubhenela indlela yemveli. Yenza icwecwe okanye ikholaji iya kuba ngamava umdla xa belungiselela holide, kwaye uya kuba isipho ingenakulibaleka ukuba Amaqhawe sihlandlo.

Ukuthetha izipho, akukho mfuneko kwakhona ukuba kwakunye 45 iminyaka umtshato ukubonisa uthando kunye nobuhlobo, ulonwabo kunye nokuzinikela, nokuqonda kunye nokunyaniseka ukubalula. Akuthandabuzeki ukuba, nayiphi na sipho kuya kuba luncedo kwesi sibini, akanakuba isipho esixabisekileyo ngakumbi kubo ingqalelo nomsa bonke abo wabanika iholide ludlula, abo beza kubonga kubo nokwabelana ulonwabo, sisipho esivela kwekamva.

Makhe ezingamashumi amane anesihlanu lamhla kuya kubakho ithuba elihle ukuphinda-kunokutshiseka nelangatye olomeleleyo nothando ehambisekile kuzo, ukuba aye nohambo olunomdla ndawonye iminyaka elandelayo lomtshato, eliza kubakho nayiphi ezibalulekileyo kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu nyaka ngamnye.