Iingxabano Family, iindlela ezakhayo izisombululo zabo

Family njenge inkqubo epheleleyo intsebenziswano esebenzayo akavumelekanga zingqubane iingxaki, ungquzulwano kunye ingxabano. Ngapha koko, abantu bafuna ukwanelisa iintswelo zabantu bonke ubomi babo, kodwa musa ithathele ingqalelo iimfuno iqabane.

Oonobangela ukungavumelani entsapho

1. Ngenxa lwamaxabiso ezifana ingxabano ezi iimfuno ezahlukeneyo amaqabane kunye neepatheni ngumzali.

2. Indawo kuvela ukungavisisani ngethuba kumzabalazo indawo kwi intloko-ntsapho.

3. uhlobo ngesondo yeyona ngenxa nokungavisisani osenyongweni. Ngokuba imvume bakhe unyango.

4. iingxoxo Emotional kuthatha indawo sizoku lwisana imfuneko esingekafezeki iimvakalelo ezintle. Ehamba ukungabi esingapheliyo uthando kunye nokuqonda ngakwicala umntu kumalungu osapho. loo mbambano ulandela imibutho, apho abantu nje andikhathali ndana.

5. umbala Economic-iindleko kukho iingxabano entsatsheni nemeko enzima zemali. Njengomthetho jikelele, amaqabane ukubamba izikimu ezahlukeneyo lwabiwo mali ngenyanga.

umahluko abukhali kwenzeke ngenxa yezi zizathu ngasentla, kungenzeka ngokucacileyo okanye ngokupheleleyo. Kwimeko yokuqala, abantu ukutshintsha ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi emzimbeni. Efihliweyo, ungquzulwano ayikho baqonda ngabantu ixesha elithile nto ebonakaliswa yokuziphatha.

iingxabano Family, iindlela zophuhliso lwabo

1. Kukho mandundu le meko, ebonisa okuhambisa yingozi. Isiphumo lo mtshato.

2. Olu ngquzulwano uba luhlobo esisigxina; kusahleli amalahle ixesha elide, iminyaka emininzi.

3. Isimo ukusilela.

indlela yokuziphatha engumzekelo sibini phakathi

1. Olu khuphiswano show ubuntu, sinotyekelo ngxabano kwi ubuhlobo. Khetha ukusombulula ingxabano ngaphandle Ethetha maxongo a iimfuno iqabane. Kwinkqubo yophuhliso le meko kunye nokwanda aphazamiseke ajike abe izithuko, izisongelo, kwaye kwezinye iimeko gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni zobuqu.

2. Intsebenziswano kuthetha ukuba kungquzulwano osapho isonjululwe kuthathelwa ingqalelo imidla yawo onke amalungu entsapho.

etsolo indlela Isisombululo iimeko Ian and Ketrin Gotlib

Isiphumo esihle lwempikiswano japan ixhomekeke ngokuthobela iimeko ezithile:

• amelana lwenzeka ngaphandle phambi kwabantwana;
• ezibangela impixano kule ntsapho laliqulunqwe ucacise ngokucacileyo iikona ezibukhali;
• ngaxeshanye kunye nokudluliselwa iimvakalelo zayo ezimbi wakhankanya isimo sengqondo elihle liqabane;
• kwicala ngalinye ukulungele ukuba ngokuzola ukuphulaphula izimvo nokuziphatha kwabo;
• Ndizicacisile eziphambili ilungu ngalinye lentsapho, wafumana esivumelana kwiimfuno;
• wamisa imibuzo phambili emfazini wakhe kube lula ukuchaza imihlaba iingxaki neemvakalelo;
• ukuba kuyimfuneko, bonke abazimisele ukulinda de iimvakalelo kuthotha iqabane eyenzeke;
• akubeka phambili counter-ziphakamiso zamkelekile ukuya kwelinye icala.

kungquzulwano osapho isonjululwe indlela UJan Ketrin Gotlib ngabo yavala:

• akukho mfuneko uxolo ngaphambi kokuba iqabane liyayiqonda into zisola;
• akunakwenzeka ukuba ukuguqulela ingxoxo kundoqo, kukho nje imbambano ekhoyo, ukuba balahle loo meko okanye bembuza tu;
• kujolisa kwisigaba omhle iintsilelo;
• ukuhoyana nemiba enxulumene kwezinye iingxabano, kungekhona ukuze thethwano;
• ukufukama ingqumbo, ngathi kwisivumelwano kunye welinye icala;
• interlocutor ukuchaza iimvakalelo ukusuka ngokubaluleka kwazo;
• agxeke eziphambili ngokubaluleka omnye umntu;
• ukudlala suspiciousness kunye nokungaqiniseki.

Xa isisombululo olukhulu usapho esiphikisanayo mtshato ngokukhawuleza okanye emva kunqandwa. Simele sikhumbule ukuba ningezi ngokwakho ukuba luvo breakdowns ngexesha kwiinkqubo komtshato, kufuneka ube ukungaguquguquki. inkqubo esemthethweni ezingemnandi landulelwa mtshato ngokweemvakalelo yokuqala, ebonakalaliswe ehlukanisiwe kwezinye, ukungakhathali nganye, ungathenjwa kunye nothando. Ke sibini ihamba ukuya kwinqanaba mtshato ngokwasemzimbeni, aphile ixesha elide ngaphandle. Kuphela emva abahlala bodwa, kucetyiswa ukuba uqhubeke ukuze ubhaliso amaxwebhu asemthethweni ukuqinisekisa ilungelo ukwenza i intsapho entsha.