Ekati ephupheni - ntoni na?

Cat - ukuba endimangazayo eyimfihlakalo. izithethe ezininzi, amabali, kunye nophando byley uthi ngeempawu ezimangalisayo eli qabane. Ngokutsho abathile kubo, ikati uyakwazi ukunyanga izigulo ezininzi kakhulu kwaye libulale. Yena ngumthombo zesi sifo omthandayo umnini omnye uwa phezu ndawo isibetho notsalo esi sifo, maxa wambi bafe koko. Kanye sentsomi, ibali kungqinwe imizekelo emininzi ebomini.

Ikati, ngenxa ngokuphawulekayo, intuition lawo uyakwazi ukuchaza ezinye isiganeko esibalulekileyo kwaye kaninzi ezingemnandi. Umzekelo, kukho ukuziphatha ikati ekucamngceni kwimimandla yinyikima ukuqikelela neenyikima. Ukuze baphupha ikati okanye ikati kubalulekile isibili. Ngokuphindiwe - ngokuba ukulala naye ingumdlali ophambili umqondiso ithunyelwe ukusuka ngentla. Ke ngoko, xa ingqondo yomntu, ndithembele nobugqi phambana nokulala kunye cat kuthatha omninzi umsebenzi lokuqonda izakhi umqondiso twisiseka.

Yintoni ibe enhle kwaye okuhle ngaphezu ekati? Ephupheni, siyabona ukuba kwaoko yawa phantsi kwenkululeko ingqalelo wethu, kwanokuba oko kwenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo. I krwaqu ubuso ethile - yaye ngonaphakade eyayikrolwe ezingqondweni zethu, xa iiseli yobuchopho bethu. Kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba xa umntu "ibonakala" kwelingaphantsi kwinkumbulo yakhe. Ngokufuthi kwenzeka nje ephupheni. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ukuba ibe isimanga esingaqhelekanga iphupha: ikati ekati okanye ephupha sungula rocket isithuba. Sekunjalo, le cat thina balindele ezinkulu kunye nenkxalabo. iincwadi iphupha ezininzi, epapashwe kudala okanye namhlanje, etyhila amaphupha, ukunceda abantu baxhalatyiswa ngombono ebusuku, ukufumana uxolo okanye, phezu koko, ukuzama ukunqanda engxakini. Ekati ephupheni - nto ke ayithethi nice njengoko ngokwenyani. Indlela nokutolika naluphi incwadi iphupha, ekati, abaninzi kubo encinane okanye ngokuyimfuneko zinto zingumqondiso inkathazo. Kodwa apha kukho ezinye bokuqonda. Ookatana ezahlukeneyo, kunye namaphupha kunye ekati ukuthetha ngezinto ezahlukahlukeneyo.

Ukuba ukubamba amagqabantshintshi ekati efileyo ebuthongweni bakhe, ngokutsho neetoliki, ungazihluphi, uya kwenza ukuba wena. Emva iphupha kufuneka ahlaziye ukuziphatha kwabo, nobudlelwane nabanye: yonke into wena wenza ntoni? Mhlawumbi into kufuneka itshintshwe. Enoba uyayikholelwa okanye akuyikholelwa amaphupha, kodwa ukwenza oku anze soze iyingozi, kodwa okulungileyo kwaye zange engazisi yona.

Umbala kubonakala ubuthongo lekati nayo ibalulekile. Ngoko ke, lo lekati emhlophe, ngubani yabonakala ephupheni, ulumkisa ukuba le nkohliso ezayo. Lumka Musa ukuthembela kakhulu. Black Intshontsho - elungiselela ngumgibe kuwe. Khangela ukuba nabahlobo: Musa ukufika ngale ngozi kubo.

Ke ukuba ngequbuliso yonke ephupheni usapho cat - ikati Amantshontsho abaselula - umqondiso ukuba azicocekanga ngokupheleleyo phambi kokuba abanye: kwizicwangciso zakho (? Mhlawumbi nokuba kuva) - yenza umntu inkathazo. Kodwa khumbula, impendulo uya kufumana iingxaki nangakumbi. Lala kuthathwe ngokungqinelana nenyaniso omdala yezibhalo: ukwenza kwabanye njengoko ufuna ukwenza kuni.

Ukuba engcolile, ububi, Amantshontsho abagulayo - iphupha uthi ubomi kwizinto ezincinane akuphazamise into ebalulekileyo kunye kubalulekile. Khangela naphi na, mhlawumbi azinayo le ngongoma, elintyumpantyumpeka ingamampunge yehlabathi.

Njengoko ubona, utoliko amaphupha malunga iikati kunye ekati asingabo isintu yaye kom-. Kwanokuba wena akunguye nincamisile ukuhlonela izithixo, musani ukukholwa ziikati abamnyama ekati uphupha, iingcebiso luncedo ukusuka kwincwadi xhego ngephupha ngokuqinisekileyo kuza sibe luncedo, yaye uya ukunyanzela ukujonga indlela yabo yokuphila ngendlela entsha, ukutshintsha into ngokwakho ukuba ngcono. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, musani kuba navuso xa ubona ikati iphupha ne ekati, uze ufunde utoliko amaphupha, ngokusekelwe ubudala ubudala iintsomi ubulumko, nokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.