Umbuzo abadala lo mfo mncinane, okanye njani ukuba abantwana?

Ukuze umntwana ngamnye ngabazali bakhe koothixo - koyena kwaye ekrelekrele. Ngoko ke, umbuzo njani ukuba abantwana, ukuba abuze, kuqala kwiinto zonke, ukuba umama notata. Noko ke, njengokuba kusenziwa imiboniso, ukuba indlela abazali zilungiselwe lo mbuzo, ibe amaninzi wabanjwa wothuka.

Iingcali zengqondo ngazwi linye bathi umbuzo phi na iintsana zivela, kufuneka aphendule ngokunyanisekileyo yaye nje. Simple - ngayo thaca iinkcukacha kwifomu nangokomthamo apho umntwana ukubamba. Ngokunyanisekileyo - oku kuthetha ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba zizakhele amabali kwamnandi malunga ezinjengengwamza nekhaphetshu. La mabali akwazi kukuthandabuza umntwana kuwe.

Ngokuqhelekileyo eneminyaka engama emithathu ubudala akanamdla iinkcukacha isisu kunye ukuzala. Ngoko ke, kulo mzekelo, umbuzo apho iintsana ivela, yanelisekile kakhulu kunye impendulo: ukususela esiswini sikama. Kwixa elizayo, uyakwazi ukubona ukuthi enkomeni isisu ekati, iintaka aqandusele evela amaqanda, kunye namaqanda zikhula intlanzi encinane. Xa kunjalo, xa ucinga ukuba le mpendulo akwanelanga, uyakwazi ukubalisa ibali ngaloo nto ngaphambi kokuba itakane kwenzeke njani ukuba babe esiswini sikama, yena ufana imbewu iziqingatha ezibini. Inxalenye okuziinkozo egcinwe kwi nomama kunye nezinye nobaba. Xa uyise nonina wadibana ezimbini imbewu ezidityanisiweyo esiswini sikama.

Kwinkqubo umntwana ekhula abe nolwazi zaneleyo ezi. Ngokuqhelekileyo iminyaka emihlanu okanye emithandathu kukho imfuneko ukuze ufumane ingxelo eneenkcukacha ngakumbi kufika ngayo abantwana. Kule meko kungenzeka ukuba ukuthetha ngomahluko zesini phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi, nokuba kule nkqubo ubomi obutsha athathe abantu ababini inxaxheba xa umama wam kunye neeseli likatata uxhulumanisa, a brand ubomi obutsha. Ngoko unako undixelele into umntwana Kubonakala ngathi ekuqaleni ezimbini, ngoko ke iiseli ezine yaye kufuneka iinyanga ezisithoba, kangangokuba waba ukulungele ukuba azalwe.

Xa eneminyaka esibhozo uyakwazi ukunika inkcazelo elininzana ze uchaze intsingiselo yamagama afana "isibeleko", "sperm", "qanda", yaye malunga nendlela iifyuzi amadlozi fastest kunye eqandeni.

Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa umntwana iminyaka emithandathu okanye esixhenxe yaye akazange abuze imibuzo malunga nendlela ukuza iintsana? Apha, iimbono zeengcali ezahlukeneyo: abanye bathi akukho mfuneko ukuqalisa incoko, abanye bathi akukho mfuneko silibazise ibali. Konke kuxhomekeke iinkolelo zakho kunye neminqweno. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umntwana akakwazi cela abazali zale mibuzo, ngokuba abanako abafowunelwa kwi "umzali - nomntwana" system. Ukongezelela, uya kufumana inkcazelo oyifunayo malunga nalapho iintsana zivela, kodwa kwabanye abantu. Umzekelo, oontanga, yaye akukho namnye unako ukuqinisekisa ukuba le ngcaciso iya akuyi igqwethekile. Ngoko ke, singakwazi ukulungisa isifundo ngokusebenzisa ityala: "Khangela - esiswini uMakazi Lucy xa ikhula. Kwaye uyazi ukuba kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba kukho ohlala nomntwana ... "

Kubalulekile ukuba indawo esembindini kwiingxoxo malunga nendlela ukuba babe nabantwana, wathabatha elithi uthando. Sifanele sizame ukwenza njalo ukufikisa komntwana wakho weza ukuqonda kakuhle nokomzimba olusisiseko kunye neempawu yokwakheka ukuba sizibandakanya ukuzalwa komntwana.

Kakade ke, ukuze uphendule imibuzo abantwana abadala - yinto ubugcisa, kwaye phezu kwakho kulento ngayo, iya kuxhomekeka kubudlelwane ikamva lakho.