Imida yamalungelo lobuzali, ndiwuhlutha nje kubo

Ngelishwa, kukho iintsapho apho uyise okanye unina (okanye zombini) ukulibala ngokupheleleyo malunga uxanduva lwabo lobuzali. Baqala ngoyaba intlawulo yesondlo, ngokufuthi esela, ehlekisa abantwana gadalala kubo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, urhulumente kwakufuneka babhenele eqatha.

Imida yamalungelo lwabazali - iyabuhlutha umntwana minor evela kubazali omnye okanye bobabini ngaphandle sibabandeza la malungelo. Esona sizathu siphambili lo mqathango ingozi ivela xa eshiya umntwana umama kunye notata kuloo meko, ukuba yokugqibela bazimele. Kwakhona, nomqathango amalungelo lobuzali lisetyenziswa kwiimeko apho phambi umntwana kunye nabazali kunokuba yingozi ngenxa yokuziphatha kwabo engafanelekanga.

Faka ibango kwi intswelo isithintelo amalungelo lobuzali ukuze uvale isalamane. Le nkqubo iya kusetyenziswa kuzo zombini unina noyise, okanye zombini ngaxeshanye. Inkundla usenokubona kunyanzelekile ukuba ahlawule inkxaso kwabantwana ngabazali kubantwana.

Imida yamalungelo lwabazali - kukuphelelwa lwamalungelo ukuba akhuliswe womntwana kwaye zonke izibonelelo kunye neenzuzo ukuba amnyamekele. Kulo mzekelo, abazali kufuneka siqhubeke ukuxhasa kuye nokubonelela ngendawo yokuhlala. Kwiimeko apho isithintelo amalungelo lwabazali obekwe ngabazali bobabini, umntwana ikhutshelwe abasemagunyeni ukugada okanye izalamane ekufuphi ekufuneka azobe ephiko yakhe. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu emva kokuba isigwebo uthathwa ityala apho amalungelo lwabazali uya kubuyiselwa okanye lurhoxiswe ngokusisigxina. Kodwa amanyathelo okuqala ukunika inkundla kunye ubungqina, kuba ubungqina umzali etshintsha ngcono (ukufunda abadlali, amaxwebhu, njalo njalo).

Ndayihluthwa amalungelo lobuzali, xa umda wabo akukhange isiphumo oyifunayo. Kusebenza ngokomthetho amanyathelo kwiimeko apho iimfuno nobomi umntwana uneminyaka engaphantsi lomshicileli izoyikiso ukuba abazali.

Izizathu ukupheliswa amalungelo lwabazali;

• -Non ukuhlawula isondlo.

• Ukungaphumeleli lomzali ukuba athathe umntwana ukusuka kwiziko naziphi kwabantwana (umzekelo, isibhedlele) ziyafumaneka ngaphandle kwesizathu esivakalayo kuyo.

• Ukuxhatshazwa amalungelo abo. Ngokomzekelo, xa abazali kwenza umntwana ukuba kungqiba okanye vala uloliwe.

• Ill-unyango (ngokwasengqondweni okanye ukuxhatshazwa emzimbeni).

• Ukuxhomekeka wabazali (okanye omnye wabo) zotywala okanye iziyobisi.

• Ukubangela umonakalo enkulu kwimpilo okanye ukubulawa umntwana wakhe okanye iqabane.

Xa inkundla, ndayihluthwa amalungelo lobuzali lwabazali omnye okanye bobabini, bayakuyeka ithuba lokuba bathathe inxaxheba bekhulisa umntwana. Kwakhona, uMama noTata ingaluthintela na zoqhagamshelwano nabantwana. Ukuba isigwebo akumiselweyo ngumzali omnye, lo mntwana uhlala eziselugcinweni lomnye. Xa andise isohlwayo kunye umama kunye notata, ziyahlelwa umntwana uya isigqibo nokuqashwa. Umntwana Bonikwa usapho okanye kwiziko uchazwa (ngokuxhomekeke ngobume bempilo kunye ubudala).