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Ngamnye kuthi ubuncinane kanye ufele ebuthongweni bakhe. Ukufa kuvame namaphupha ethu, ukuthatha sizifihla ezahlukeneyo izele namaphupha kunye namava kukududuzela. Maxa wambi kufa ephupheni - kuba ngamava, zizele injabulo, njengendlela inkululeko evela amaxhala neengxaki kunokwenzeka. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kukufa yaye yintoni fomu ilele, iphupha, ngokufuthi uthwele yimpazamo elungileyo.

Ukuba kufuneka afe ephupheni, ukuba ubomi obude obonwabisayo ubomi. Le zempilo eziphuculweyo, kunye ekomelezeni ubudlelwane - konke malunga ne-HIV, oko ke ndabona ephupheni ezimbi. Xa uphupha ukuba nife kude nekhaya - ukuba uhambo olude, nokuba ebomini wena endleleni - kungekudala uza kubuyela kweendonga zawo. Kuba abo bahlala kwilizwe langaphandle - kungekudala kuya kufuneka ukuba bahambe ekhaya.

Ukuba ngexesha ezinjalo imibono nazo yokothuka, yidyudyu, ezikhubazayo umzimba wonke kunye nengqondo - woyike ekufeni, yaye oku unoloyiko kudlule ephupheni, kufuneka ukufa ube liqonga ubomi nokuphila, eziyolisa imihla ngemihla, ngokutsho incwadi iphupha elo. Die ephupheni - ukuhlala ngokwenyani.

Xa ukufa kwakhe ephupheni ubiza kuphela nemvo isiqabu, ndandifeketha na, uvuyo kunye nenkululeko, ngoko yintoni na imeko sakho ngoku, nomsebenzi, ubudlelwane ngamandla wena noxinzelelweyo, yaye kungekudala bayahlelwa uya kukunika ngaphezu kwesinye ithuba ukulungisa izinto ngokukhawuleza nangokulula, ngcono icala. Kwaye singayenziyo ukuba sizibhokoxe umgudu, yonke into iza kusebenza ngokwenza ngokwawo.

Ukuze ubone kwaye uzive umbe ngayo ingcwaba ephupheni, ukuba uyazi ukuba yintoni na sele efile, ithetha ukuba iingxaki ezidlulileyo uya kungena zisabonakala, kungekudala uya kukulibala ngengxaki enkulu ukuba sele kudala uyathuthunjelwa. Kwaye ngaphandle, ukuze sife ephupheni - eneneni kunokuthetha ukuba ndimngcwabe amava ethile - ulwalamano ungonwabanga, nezinto ezinjengezo.

Isigulane wafa ebuthongweni bakhe - bachache ngokukhawuleza engalindelekanga kwaye ngokwenyani. Kodwa sibone indlela abanye isigulana siya kufa - mhlawumbi loo mntu okanye ukugula kakhulu ukuphela kungekudala. Ukuze ubone isigulana isiqaqa ephupheni - ukufumana impahla unsolvable, umbuzo onzima okanye ingxaki eza kuhlala isihloko open iminyaka emininzi. Kusenokubakho iminyaka emininzi nesimangalo, ubudlelwane ukungaqondani baman imke kunye like. Zama ukuphepha le Toffee eneneni, usebenzisa isilumkiso ebuthongweni.

Kwaye yintoni ntoni yomnye umntu ekufeni, yintoni amaphupha na umntu ofileyo? Bona umntu ofileyo ephupheni - iphupha lithetha rhoqo ngosuku olulandelayo kakhulu imvula, imozulu embi,. Maxa wambi ezinye iindaba ezivela elidlulileyo, abahlobo ilityalwe okanye nobudlelwane kwezoshishino - oko washiya ngaphambili, ukuba "wafela" wena.

Yiva, uthi umntu ofileyo - ukufumana iindaba ezibalulekileyo, izaziso, kwaye ndlela-ntle. Ukuba uthe abafileyo isalamane (uyise, nonina kunye nezinye izalamane) kufuneka amamele kwaye ukhumbule, kaninzi kakhulu ezi amaphupha bathethe ngqo malunga izigqibo ezichanekileyo, izenzo kunye yokuphuma engalindelekanga ukusuka nemeko enzima. ezibalulekileyo kuwe imiyalezo yabo. Thatha into esandleni wofileyo - ukufumana ngokoqobo yinto entle kakhulu kwaye siyingenelo (ilifa, into elungileyo, ukuwina okanye intshayelelo kakuhle). Ukunika into kwabafileyo (nokuba ngokuzithandela okanye ngokucelwa) - Emergency nokugula (ngamanye amaxesha ngokungasingisi kufeni).

Ukuze ubone indlela bamngcwabele khona umntu - ebomini bakho baya kuthatha umntu othile, kodwa ngengqiqo yokomfuziselo ilizwi. Kwakhona jonga inqanaba lobomi bakho, okanye ezinye iinkonzo zayo (indawo yomsebenzi, ukufunda, zokuhlala, njalo njalo).

Bona abahlobo abahlala ephupheni abafileyo - ingxabano kubudlelwane kunye neengxabano. Mhlawumbi ikhefu epheleleyo udibane nabo - bona "ukufa" kuwe.

Ndibona ezininzi izidumbu unknown - efihliweyo, kodwa unikele kuluncedo. Vumelana iziphakamiso amatsha, bonke baya kuba kakuhle. Ukubona inkqubo ukufa - iindaba umdla, ulwazi engalindelekanga, ezakhayo. Ukufa ephupheni nako kuthetha utshintsho enkulu entle ebomini bakho ubuthongo (abazana elungileyo, kongezwe usapho, kunye nabanye abaninzi).