Akhoyo neendwendwe kumtshato: yesithethe, ezintsha, imfuneko luvuyo?

Couples kabani umtshato uneminyaka 20-40, baya kumangaliswa, kanye phezu kumtshato mihla: izithethe ezininzi zitshintshile. Ukuba intombi yakho nyaka-amabini wathi izipho kumsitho ukwenza ngamnye yamakhulu iindwendwe, musa sukela uthathe intloko yakhe, athi: "Hayi!" Eneneni, ubomi bethu buye batshintsha phantse yonke into. Kutheni uphuculo izithethe zomtshato? Makhe sibone ukuba ngubani, yintoni na le nto kufuneka ukuba ukunika izipho emtshatweni mihla.

umtshakazi eSoviet wayesazi kakuhle: neendwendwe isipho okunene kuyimfuneko, kodwa hayi yedwa, kwaye maxa wambi elinesibini. Circle pha siphela ecacileyo: umyeni abasenyongweni izalamane (umama, utata, nabazalwana, noodade, oomawokhulu, oomalume, oomalumekazi, maxa wambi - umnqamlezo). Izipho ekhethiweyo quality. Ngenxa yokunqongophala jikelele phantse naziphi iindwendwe isipho kumtshato yajika kuyimfuneko. Emva koko, yathengwa coupon (isimemo kuphela) lweenkqubo kwisuti ndlwana. Khawuyisondeze kushada kunzima ukucinga ukuba sokuhlambela iitawuli, amalaphu, bathrobes, izikipa, izikhafu, ilaphu ilaphu, izitya, amashiti ukuze nokuqhwalela, kodwa ngenxa yokuba, oko. Zizo ezo izinto ezininzi lokwakhiwo kwezindlu kunye iimpahla lathenga iindwendwe umtshakazi langoku nomyeni abaye bafumana ukufikelela awayesibawela ukuya ezinqabileyo ezishelfini yevenkile iimpahla eziqhelekileyo. Izipho umtshakazi nomyeni bakholisa komunye.

Andibaweli emitshatweni amaxesha Soviet, Kakade ke, kwenziwa. ezizoba kubo, kakhulu, wathembela becala ezihlekisayo. Thenga into kushada, into ubungqina. Ngokuqinisekileyo into enkulu yingxaki, kuba zonke ezi Souvenir iindleko idenariyo. Kwaye okona kubalulekileyo - akukho namnye uya kufumana isipho kakhulu, oko kwanele ukuba zokwexeshana iimbasa kwikhadibhodi okanye iidiploma "Ngaba abakhaphi ezininzi esebenzayo."

Kubonakala ukuba isithethe ukuba zinikelwe iindwendwe emtshatweni apho ookhokho, kodwa ke umkhosi intsingiselo engcwele. Njengoko umthetho, umtshakazi kwakunikelwa izinto ephothiweyo, ezinxulumene, umsebenzi oyimfakamfele ngesandla. Umyeni uyise ndalifumana ibhanti, unina - a obutofotofo qhiya umtshakazi - emfakamfele shirt, izalamane - amalaphu, iitawuli, kwamalweyile. UMtshakazi wabonisa oko ukukwazi kwabo, zemibutho ulondolozo, kunye nezipho bazaliswa amandla okhethekileyo. Umyeni naye ukubonisa ukubaluleka kwabo eziphathekayo, ngenxa yokuba uzama ukuthenga idyasi unina-rich wakhe, uvavanyo - iibhutsi ezintsha, umtshakazi - izacholo kunye ehombe.

Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, kwabakho isiko ukuba zinikelwe zonke undwendwe kumtshato sitampu ezincinane iibhokisi iilekese. Esineengcambu esikweni ukuba kufunyanwa ephakathi eFransi. «Bonbon» - «iilekese" isiFrentshi, yaye bonbonnière - «ilekese." Ngoko ke, lo iilekese-ibhokisi - ibhokisi omhle yetshokholethi. Xa imibhiyozo ezahlukeneyo eFransi, iindwendwe banikwa iilekese ukuba simbulele ngenxa ubukho babo emsithweni, ubhaptizo okanye umthendeleko. Isiko ngokukhuselekileyo wasinda iinkulungwane kunye bafudukela kwamanye aseYurophu amazwe, yaye kutshanje iminyaka eRashiya kunye ico amazwe.

E France, wabeka ilekese ngokuqhelekileyo iiamangile eyenziwe ngezitena, kodwa namhlanje kunokuba ibe epha encinane itshokolethi kwi alumuniyam okanye iziqhamo candied. Iibhokisi Candy bafana pouches, iingxowa, iimvulophu, iibhokisi. Balungiselele izandla zabo achole nethoni umxholo yakho yomtshato. Hi ndlela leyi, ngokwesithethe kwi iilekese kufuneka iipilisi 5: iisimboli wenzala, ulonwabo, ukuchuma, ezempilo kunye ixesha elide. Namhlanje, esi sixa ngokuqhelekileyo khange ahlonelwe, udaba ethandwayo uthi kuphela ukuba isixa iilekese kufuneka limnqakathi.

Ngaphezu koko, ukuba nokusebenziseka namandla, yaye umoya nezinyo sweet French. Namhlanje, izibini ngakumbi nangakumbi ucinga njengezikhumbuzo eziya kushiya inkumbulo ngokoyisa ixesha elide. Umzekelo, kwimagnethi kwi efrijini kunye nomhla lomtshato kunye iifoto abo batshatayo kunokunceda iindwendwe ukhumbule imini lakho lomtshato, kwaye nokuba ukubala phezu izipho zomtshato ngamaplanga (isikhumbuzo sesihlanu ubomi joint).

Ezinye izibini beze ezingaphezu izimvo yasekuqaleni njengezikhumbuzo iindwendwe, ukuba babe iikhalenda, iiglasi kunye ndaba uyilo okhethekileyo, yabeka izinto, zitsha, iingqayi isuntswana jam ... iindwendwe Akhoyo kumtshato kunokuba wayedlala. Kule meko sithetha njengezikhumbuzo ngamnye, nto leyo ngokuqinisekileyo nzima ubomi sele inzima kushada elizayo.

Siye kwakhona iindlela ezingundoqo izipho ngenxa lomtshato, kodwa yena akazange uphendule lo mbuzo: "? Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe kwi yokuziphatha yomtshato" Kule minyaka yeenkqubo ezichaphazela ihlabathi, ukuba bathethe malunga ubukho imithetho esekwe kakuhle kunzima, enyanisweni, a yokuziphatha lomtshato eqhelekileyo angekhoyo. Kakade ke, iibhokisi iilekese - isithethe hayi Slavic, kodwa wabamba phambili, kunye nabantu abaninzi abafana ngayo.

Namhlanje, kuphela isibini isigqibo sokuba ngubani ndimnike zezikhumbozo, yaye yintoni nesipho neendwendwe kumtshato ezichanekileyo. Awunako pha mntu. Bright mkhosi, isidlo, bonisa inkqubo - engundoqo isipho ukuba abaphulaphuli. Unako ukunika izipho ukuvala izalamane, njengoko benza oomama yakho ogogo. Kwaye sikulungisele njengezikhumbuzo French-style kubo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kulenkonzo (okanye onke 1 ngosapho). Isigqibo Kuxhomekeke umtshakazi nomyeni. Kholwani ndim, akukho imithetho ecacileyo-cut. Ngokutsho ngokuqwalasela ikhokela imitshato, umgidi namhlanje malunga wesithathu uya ngaphandle izipho iindwendwe, kodwa le holide ingabi nayiphi gay ngaphantsi okanye azonwabanga.

Noko ke, ukuba imali ukuba, kutheni ukwenza oku senzo elithandekayo - bonbonniere isipho - ukubulela iindwendwe kuba into eyabiwe nawe namhla. Ngokuqinisekileyo fun wathi, Sukani, nabo bonke abakhoyo. Le bonbonniere Unokuyifaka ikhadi lombulelo. Mhlawumbi, asimele silibale kodwa ukuba akukho ukufumana izipho wedding segolide, nezinto ezinqwenelekayo kufuneka ukuba kubize kakhulu. Ezizoba anikwa ekupheleni yombhiyozo okanye ngexesha lokuthweswa yeminikelo njengoko impendulo "enkosi".

Enoba kunjalo, musa ukulibala ukubulela iindwendwe ngomlomo.